What is Private FDR Judging?

This is more formal than a straightforward early neutral evaluation and will usually mimic the court procedure. The process allows you to either step away from the court process (just for this hearing) or you could have a private FDR once you have all the financial information to hand in other processes, even traditional letter writing.

Unless you agree otherwise, it’s not legally binding and any discussions cannot be used in any further court action or in arbitration. (Although your offers to settle can be used in court later — so must be sensible and reasonable or risk costs orders against you).


Private FDR judging is used:

1. when you have a financial case only — for married, civil partners;

2. when it is complementary to the court process (or avoids it altogether); and

3. for Trust of Land cases (for cohabiting couples) too.


Typical court process in a financial case for those that are married or in a civil partnership:

1. You both have to complete a Form E (a 28-page document you complete that discloses all your finances, what you need and sets out your case along with a huge number of supporting documents that support your case).

2. Once you’ve done this you attend a First Appointment (FDA) at court. The judge will then direct your next steps. These usually include asking questions about the Form E, replying to those questions and to instruct experts e.g. to value a business, value property, calculate tax. A date is set for you to come back to court with all of this information.

3. You will prepare offers to settle the case (these set out exactly how you see your case and the reasons for it).

4. You will both set out your legal costs so far and your estimated costs for the FDR and onwards to a Final Hearing (known as a Form H).

5. The court sets a date for an FDR hearing (Financial Dispute Resolution hear- ing). This hearing at court is an hour long but you are likely to be waiting to see the judge for some hours. You cannot choose your judge.

6. At the FDR hearing you or your lawyers set out your case and the reasons for it. As the judge has all the financial information they will give a view on how they would judge the case if the matter was a final hearing. You have to attend court at least an hour early and be prepared to stay for as long as is necessary. You will never see this judge again as they will no longer be neutral having given their view of the case.


The idea of an FDR hearing is that it encourages you to settle. Having listened to the judge you have more, or maybe less, confidence in your own case.


You and your lawyers are expected to work hard to settle things. You may go into court (time allowing) to ask for further clarification from the judge.


The family court is very keen on private FDRs. It will agree to adjourn the matter whilst you attend a private FDR and it will agree to skip the court FDR in favour of the private FDR.


The court will also appoint a private judge (from a list of choices you make) if you can’t agree on one at the FDA. But note, one of you will have issued an application at court and this book is all about avoiding court.


You both choose your private FDR judge — usually based on price and availability. If you can’t agree you can ask the IFLA (Institute of Family Law Arbitrators) who will appoint someone from their membership. The private FDR judge will have all the necessary information needed (see the process above).


You or your lawyers will present your case and the reasons for it. It’s expected that you will have set out your proposals for settlement in an offer letter to each other; then the private FDR judge is fully familiar with the way you are thinking. You will both complete the Form H so the private FDR judge knows how much you have spent on legal costs and how much you estimate you will spend if you continue onto a final hearing.


The private FDR judge will then give their view (sometimes in writing). You then negotiate around the terms they suggest. The private FDR judge is available all day to help you create a settlement.


• It is heavily supported by the judiciary.

• You can choose your private FDR judge.

• If you can’t agree on a private FDR judge the court will appoint someone from a list you provide. If you aren’t in proceedings then the IFLA can appoint someone from their membership.

• The court will (or should) accommodate these private hearings. The court can list a final hearing rather than you having to attend a first appointment and yet another court FDR.

• Speed: you can get a private FDR judge immediately whereas the court wait time is around 18 months.

• Saves money. The court process is mired with delay and last-minute postponements. A postponement costs you money because the lawyers will have prepared. You will have incurred a brief fee (barrister’s costs for reading the papers and keeping the diary date free). Delays cost you money because you keep having to update your financial disclosure for each hearing.

• You will find out how much you have each spent on your legal costs (the Form H) and this usually clarifies the fact that you don’t want to spend yet more money on lawyers.

• You have the private FDR judge all day. This is an unimagined luxury and never happens at court. This means you can run ideas by them to see if they are in line with what a court might order.

• The private FDR judge is very experienced. Often, they have other skills like mediation or collaborative and can speak in a way that you will understand and can answer any questions — in a way that a court can’t because of a lack of time.

• The private FDR judge will definitely have read all the papers. The court judge (with the best will in the world) may not have done. They usually have four FDRs to deal with in a morning. This compares with just one for the private FDR judge.

• It’s not legally binding — so this leaves you free to negotiate around the judge’s thoughts and come up with something that suits you both (unlike arbitration which is legally binding).

• It can be legally binding if your lawyers draw up Heads of Agreement or a Consent Order which is signed off by all (it would be hard to change your mind about this later).

• Anecdotally there are high settlement rates.



• Cost: you have to pay for your FDR judge (and early neutral evaluator). Costs in 2022 range between £2,000 and £6,000 + VAT depending on the amount the FDR judge has to read and their experience (as a rule QCs are often twice or more as expensive as this estimate).

• Voluntary: so if one of you doesn’t want to do this it won’t happen.

• It’s not legally binding. So, you may go to the expense of the private FDR and reach no conclusion.

• Sometimes an unreasonable person will not change their minds having heard from the private FDR judge and continue with their unreasonable case forcing you to go to arbitration (if they are willing) or for you to issue an application at court.

How do I prepare?

1. Make sure you have swapped Forms E, asked your questions and replied to each other’s questions.

2. Complete the Form Hs (this summarises your current and likely future legal costs).

3. Make sensible written offers to settle and exchange them before the hearing.

4. Prepare a bundle of documents in a searchable PDF format (see Practice Direction 27 on the preparation of court bundles). You can prepare a paper bundle of documents but this will take much longer to get to the private FDR judge (paper bundles are fast becoming a thing of the past).

5. Send/email everything off to the private FDR judge to give them time to read it (10 days beforehand is ideal).

6. Be open-minded. You might be completely wrong about your case.


What other non-court options could this be used with?

It’s most often used within court proceedings or when solicitors are negotiating by letter. But there is no reason why it can’t be used to complement other processes e.g. mediation or collab.


How do I find a private FDR judge?

  1. Check out barristers’ chambers and solicitors’ websites for details of senior solicitors and barristers who offer this service.
  2. Most IFLA members will also offer private FDRs: http://ifla.org.uk/

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